I am not connected with the Toner family but found the Ballymacnab, Armagh birth record for the James Toner who may have been your grandfather. I also located the Ballymacnab birth records for several of his brothers and sisters. Their father was Arthur Toner. If you do not have these records I can send them to you sometime this week, by next weekend at the latest if my work schedule allows. If I hear back from you this coming week I'll also see if I can find the baptism records for the Toner children. Can you confirm that your grandfather James's father was Arthur and that the family was Catholic?