Thank you for your post and the update. That is a very sad story, but it is good that you have uncovered it for your research, and it may assist others who have the same mystery in their own family research.
Would you consider creating a profile for this family? You can do so under the XO Chronicles and it is very easy to do.
If you need any help, please let me know. You can email me directly at: email@example.com.
Thanks again for keeping us updated and for your continued interest in Ireland Reaching Out!