Thank you very much for your message. I hope that someone with information on the family makes a connection with you and gives you some new information.
In the meantime, did you know that Irish Genealogy have begun uploading church records to their websites free of charge? Only a small number of counties have been completed so far and only some parts of Cork. Fortunately, Bandon and Drimoleague Catholic parishes have been uploaded. You can search these here:
Another useful website is the Irish Times where it gives you an overview of what records are available in specific parishes. For Bandon parish follow this link:
Some other websites which you may find useful are:
The National Archives of Ireland http://www.nationalarchives.ie/genealogy1/genealogy-records/introduction/
The National Library of Ireland http://www.nli.ie/en/family-history-introduction.aspx
Genealogy links: http://www.genealogylinks.net/uk/ireland/cork/index.html
Failte Romhat: www.failteromhat.com