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I checked the online Irish phone book https://www.eirphonebook.ie/ and there were five Laide records and four were in the general area around Tralee. Make sure you use the Residential TAB.
The 1901 and 1911 census records show a John Laide family in Dromatoor. Possibly this is a nephew of Richard. He appears to be about 10 years too young to be Richard's son. I also found his church marriage record (below) from 1868. If you get his civil record, it will show his father's name.
Area - KERRY (RC) , Parish/Church/Congregation - BALLYHEIGUE
Marriage of JOHN LAID of NR and JOHANNA FORHAN of TIERSHANNAHAN on 15 February 1868
NameJOHN LAIDJOHANNA FORHANAddressNRTIERSHANNAHAN