daniel connell marraige

i am trying to find the marrage of daniiel connell from gorthaclahan kenmare co kerry to mary dwyer they got married around 1845/6 i dont know where she is from. they lived in his home plase gorthaclahan kenmare .they had eight childrens the first born was gobinet on the 3/1/1847   all were baptised in kenmare church i have all the childrens birth certificates. there is no record of there marrige  in the kenmare parish church, or in the kanmare civil records.  i found a daniel connell from gorthaclahan kenmare in the kenmare parish records he was born on the 5/3/1820 and i wondered if this is the same person.could you advise if there is any way of  finding out if this is the case.                                                                                          thank you very much                                                                                                     yours faithfully                                                                                                                         maurice o connell