Do you think Patrick had cousins named Michael/Mical, John and Patrick along with their sister, Mary all born in or near Kiladysert between 1838 and 1844;
These kids' parents are John Troy (b about 1818) and Bridget Kane (Keane?).
Michael listed Kiladysert as his home town or parish, where he was "from".
I wonder if, i.e., Mical Troy (christened 1838), son of John (b about 1818) was a cousin of Ellen's father, Patrick Troy. Ellen was b 1881 which means Patrick was likely born ~ 1845-1861. If Ellen was the youngest siblings or near that end of the kids, then it may be true. But, if Ellen was the oldest child and Patrick was older, he could have still been a cousin. The Irish did have kids for years and years.
Mical Troy's wife died in childbirth 1892. She was easily 50 by then.
Pat Troy Demers
USA